Choitalyk Ruman's Corner

Author: Choitalyk Ruman

  • Smile

    Smile, pick a happy song, be thankful to God. Practice kindness and spread love. Don’t forget we all are equal. We share same love, same energy , share same planet and created by same God. ~#CR09 #Smile

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  • Life

    I am trying to learn about my own self. Who exactly I am .  How to live within the sound of my slow breathing, which is flying like a bird. It is a peaceful journey within me. I am trying to see the view when my physical eyes are closed. ~#CR08 #Life

     

     

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  • ONENESS

    We are all ONE.  We share same energy, same Love , same planet. ~#CR07 #ONENESS

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  • Gratitude

    I’m grateful to God, for the gift of life. In this short journey of my life, I have no reason to hate others because They all are part my energy.

    I radiate love, joy, peace, and happiness. I do not go by the book but my thoughts are under my control. I do what make me happy but my happiness will not hurt other’s feelings. I love you all divinely and love my creator . ~#CR06#Gratitude

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  • কৃতজ্ঞতাবোধ

    সেদিন আমার ইনবক্স এ অনেক সুন্দর মিষ্টি একটা মেসেজ পেলাম।

    “আপু আপনাকে  চিনতে সময় লেগেছে তাই ধন্যবাদ দিতে পারিনি। আমার দাদী , আপনার কথা প্রায় ই বলতেন। বলতেন আপনার মত কারো যদি মেয়ে হয় কোন আপসোস থাকা উচিৎ নয়।“

    আমি ওকে রেপ্লাই দিয়ে জানতে চেলাম কেন ওর দাদী এ কথা ওকে বলেছেন? ওই বা কেন আমাকে এই মেসেজ দিয়েছে? কিসের জন্য ধন্যবাদ দিয়েছে? মাথা মুণ্ডু কিছু ই বুঝতে পারছিলাম না।

    ও আমাকে রেপ্লাই করে বললো  আমি নাকি তখন বাংলাদেশে স্কুলে যাচ্ছিলাম, পথে ওর দাদীকে  অসুস্থ  দেখে কাছে গিয়েছিলাম। তারপর রিকশা পাচ্ছিলাম না তাই তাঁকে জড়িয়ে ধরে হেটে হেটে ডাক্তারের কাছে নিয়ে গিয়েছিলাম।  আমি বললাম, আমিতো অনেককেই ডাক্তারের কাছে নিয়ে গিয়েছি। আমার মনে পড়েনা তোমার দাদী কে ছিলেন। ও বললো ওদের আমার কথা মনে আছে।

    আমি আমার আম্মিকে জিজ্ঞেস করলুম।

    আম্মি বললেন যে “হুম  তুমি আগে তোমার টিফিন এর টাকা বাঁচাতে এবং তা দিয়ে বস্তির অনেককেই ডাক্তার দেখিয়েছ। ও তাদের ই একজনের নাতি।

    তোমার ওদের সবার মুখ মনে নেই কিন্তু ওরা কৃতজ্ঞ মানুষ তাই তোমায় ভুলে যায়নি। কেউ যদি কাউকে সাহায্য করে,

    যারা ভাল মানুষ তারা কৃতজ্ঞতা বোধ সম্পন্ন হয়। তারা ওটা মনে রাখে। মনে রাখা উচিৎ।

    আবার যে নিঃস্বার্থ ভাবে অন্যকে সাহায্য করে সে ওটা মনে রাখেনা। তাই তুমিও ওটাকে মনের মধ্যে ধরে রাখনি। কারন তুমি ওদের নিঃস্বার্থ ভাবে সাহায্য করেছো। কোন প্রতিদানের জন্য করনি। তাই ওটা তোমার মনে থাকেনি কিন্তু ওরা গরীব হোলেও ওদের মন অনেক বড়। তাই তোমাকে খুঁজে নিয়েছে। কৃতজ্ঞতা জানানোর জন্য।

    ওদের এই মনুষ্যত্ব বোধ আমাকে বিমোহিত করেছে। পৃথিবীতে আজো অনেক মহান মানুষ আছেন তাই পৃথিবী ভারসাম্য হারায়নি!!  ~~#CR03

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  • Mastering the Art of Positivity: Navigating the Mind through Laughter and Joyful Memories”

    Embracing a positive mindset is crucial for overall well-being, yet there are instances when negative thoughts attempt to infiltrate our consciousness. Despite my continuous efforts to maintain a positive outlook, there are moments when negativity seems to overpower my mind. Escaping this mental dominance proves challenging, making the pursuit of a positive state of mind feel elusive. Recognizing the significance of preventing such situations, I’ve come to understand that there’s a more effective approach to confront and manage these moments.

    In order to combat negative thoughts, it is imperative to consciously redirect our focus towards positive aspects. A recent incident serves as a vivid illustration of this principle. Without apparent cause, I found myself feeling inexplicably sad and purposeless. Realizing the encroachment of negative energy, I deliberately heightened my self-love awareness. Spontaneously, I decided to take a walk on a trail with my backpack, immersing myself in the enchanting beauty of nature. As I engaged with the serene surroundings, my mind successfully expelled the negative energy, making room for happiness and joy. In an unexpected turn, laughter erupted from within me, triggered by a humorous recollection from the past.

    This laughter-inducing memory transported me back to an evening in Bangladesh a few years ago. During a dinner at a friend’s house, an uproarious moment unfolded when tea accidentally sprayed all over a friend’s face. Initially embarrassing, this memory now resonates as a pure, golden recollection. Laughter, as demonstrated in that moment, possesses a contagious quality that transcends time and space, impacting my present disposition positively. Encouragingly, this episode emphasizes the transformative power of redirecting the mind towards joyous memories, thus fostering a more positive and resilient mental state.

    In essence, our minds can be wielded as tools to navigate towards happiness. By consciously steering our thoughts towards positive realms, we can relish the richness of the present moment. This practice not only shields us from the onslaught of negativity but also enables the creation of lasting, uplifting memories that contribute to a more optimistic and fulfilling mindset.

  • Love’s Investment: Weaving the Tapestry of a Purposeful Life

    Where you invest your love. You invest your life. Investing love is a profound commitment that extends beyond mere emotions—it’s a deliberate allocation of one’s time, energy, and devotion. Love, in its various forms, serves as the cornerstone of meaningful connections, forging bonds that endure the tests of time. When you invest your love in someone or something, you’re making a conscious choice to prioritize and nurture that aspect of your life. It becomes a measure of where you direct your passion and the values that guide your decisions.

    The choice of where to invest your love shapes your life’s narrative. It transforms routine actions into meaningful experiences and imbues your journey with purpose. Whether directed towards relationships, passions, or endeavors, love becomes the driving force that propels you forward. It infuses your existence with a profound sense of fulfillment, creating a tapestry of memories woven with the threads of care and compassion. Your life, in essence, becomes a reflection of the choices you make in allocating this invaluable resource.

    Moreover, investing love carries transformative power. It has the ability to mend wounds, bridge gaps, and elevate the human experience. Acts of love, both big and small, contribute to a collective tapestry that binds individuals and communities together. It fosters resilience, understanding, and a sense of shared humanity. As you invest your love, you become an active participant in shaping not only your own destiny but also contributing to the greater narrative of interconnected lives.

    However, the investment of love is not without its challenges. It requires vulnerability and a willingness to weather storms. Yet, it is precisely through these challenges that love gains its depth and resilience. In facing adversity together, bonds are strengthened, and the investment matures into a source of enduring strength. The journey of investing love is not always linear, but it is the undulating path that adds richness and texture to the story.

    Ultimately, the concept encapsulates the idea that life’s true richness lies in the quality of relationships and experiences rather than material wealth or superficial accomplishments. It prompts introspection, encouraging individuals to evaluate where they channel their emotional energy and consider whether those investments align with their values. In a world often marked by the pursuit of external success, investing love serves as a timeless reminder of the intrinsic value found in genuine connections and the profound impact it has on the tapestry of one’s life.