Choitalyk Ruman's Corner

Category: Natural Beauty and compassion

  • The Quiet Beauty of Ordinary weekend.

    By Choitalyk Ruman

    This morning, I woke to a soft golden light spilling through my window. When I pulled the curtain aside, the world outside seemed wrapped in quiet beauty the maple leaves had turned deep red, some shimmering like pure gold. The berries along the fence glowed crimson, a small feast waiting for the birds before winter arrives.

    It felt like the earth was preparing gathering, giving, and gracefully letting go. I stood there for a while, just breathing it in. No rush, no noise, just the stillness of a Saturday morning reminding me how time moves not with thunder, but with whispers.

    You don’t notice the days passing until you pause like this until you realize the moments that once felt ordinary were actually the heartbeats of your life. Breakfasts shared with family. Laughter echoing down the hall. The quiet walks after dinner when the world feels softer.

    One day, those little things become the ones we ache to return to not the milestones, not the grand successes, but the simple, everyday pieces of love stitched into our routine.

    The sunlight touching your kitchen table. The sound of someone you love laughing in another room. The hugs that linger for just a second longer.

    These are the treasures we carry , not in photographs or timelines, but in our hearts. They stay there, glowing quietly, reminding us that life’s beauty is never in the rush, it’s in the noticing.

    So, take a breath. Look around. Feel the warmth of the sun, the song of the wind, the kindness in someone’s smile.

    Because even this moment ,this ordinary, golden Saturday , is already becoming a memory.

  • When November Whispers

    By Choitalyk Ruman

    Let November become your quiet teacher
    showing how to release with grace,
    how to let go of what has already lived its season,
    and open your palms to the gentle now.

    Let your pace soften.
    Let the hush between moments be enough.
    Discover how silence itself
    can become the soil where peace quietly blooms.

    May the days arrive wrapped in tender mercies,
    the flicker of a candle flame,
    the comfort of something warm in the oven,
    the soft percussion of rain upon the roof.

    Give thanks not only for what shines,
    but for what stays steady
    when the brilliance fades into dusk.

    As the earth folds inward,
    may you come to know stillness
    not as a finish line,
    but as the first breath
    of becoming whole again.

    Let November cradle you in its gentle arms,
    its calm drifting in
    like mist across morning meadows.

    Seek warmth not from sunlight,
    but from the corners and pauses
    that remind you of home.

    Let your hands find joy in simple offerings,
    a steaming cup between your fingers,
    a beloved page turning softly,
    the hush of golden leaves descending.

    Let breath find its rhythm.
    Let quiet strength reveal itself.
    Let beauty shimmer through every change.

    And when the daylight grows brief,
    may the glow turn inward,
    steady and luminous,
    like gratitude that never dims.

    #ChoitalykRuman #ummeymiah

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    2025 ChoitalykRuman (Ummey R Miah). All rights reserved.

  • Blessings Hidden Behind Closed Doors

    Have you ever stood at a crossroads in life and felt like the door you desperately wanted to walk through just wouldn’t budge? Or perhaps you were surprised when a door swung open effortlessly, leading you into a chapter you never imagined?
    Both moments—the open doors and the closed ones—are not random. They are part of a divine plan written with wisdom far beyond our understanding.


    When God opens a door, it’s because He has prepared the path for you. He’s aligning people, opportunities, and timing in a way that you may not see yet, but will one day look back on with awe. Embrace it. Step forward with courage. That open door is an invitation to grow, to stretch, to trust.
    And when a door closes? That, too, is a gift. Yes, it may feel like a setback, a loss, or even a rejection. But often, what feels like a “no” from God is really a redirection toward something far greater. Think of the person who didn’t get the job they prayed for, only to be offered one later that fulfilled their soul’s calling. Or the relationship that ended, making room for healing and self-discovery, and eventually, a love that honored their worth.


    Life will always bring change—it’s the only constant. Seasons shift. People evolve. Circumstances rise and fall. But in every twist and turn, you have a choice: to react in fear or to respond in faith.
    Don’t question God’s plan just because it doesn’t look like your plan. Don’t assume the story is over just because the page turned unexpectedly. The author of life sees the whole book. Let Him write your story. Let Him order your steps.


    Be still in moments of confusion. Be patient in seasons of waiting. And be joyful even in uncertainty—because you are not alone. You are being guided, shaped, and prepared for something beautiful.
    Whatever you’re facing today, hold on to this truth: God is good, always. And everything that is happening—whether it feels pleasant or painful—is working together for your highest good.


    Trust the process. Keep your faith strong. Walk in gratitude. Your breakthrough might just be one more closed door away.
    Stay blessed, stay hopeful, and keep going.
    #ChoitalykRuman

    Be still. Be faithful. Be blessed.
    God is always good.

    –    #ChoitalykRuman 4/25/2025

  • Embracing Change: Discovering the Beauty in Life’s Uncertainty”

    Life has a way of testing us, often in unexpected and challenging ways. It’s like a storm that catches you off guard—one moment, you’re enjoying a gentle breeze, and the next, you’re battling fierce winds that seem determined to knock you down. Just when it feels like everything is falling into place, when you finally catch a glimpse of peace and think, “This is it, I’ve found my balance,” life shakes things up again, reminding you that nothing stays the same for long.

    We’ve all experienced it—the frustration of taking a step forward only to be pushed two steps back. Life isn’t just about smooth paths and gentle winds; it’s also about rough roads, difficult moments, and harsh lessons that test us to our core. These times can leave us feeling lost, questioning our purpose, and wondering where we truly belong.

    But in the midst of these challenges, I’ve found comfort in a simple truth: change is inevitable. No matter how hard or painful the moment, it will pass. This reminder has become a quiet mantra for me, a grounding thought that keeps me going through life’s uncertainties. It’s a message that when things are tough, they won’t stay that way forever, and that we have the power to adapt, rebuild, and rise stronger.

    This truth applies equally to the good times. When life feels calm and joyful, I’ve learned not to take it for granted. Instead, I remind myself to savor these moments, to embrace them fully, knowing that they, too, are part of life’s ebb and flow. It’s not about living in fear of what’s to come, but about deeply appreciating the present—understanding that life’s beauty is often found in its fleeting, precious moments.

    The constancy of change brings a certain kind of beauty. It keeps us humble during the highs and gives us hope during the lows. Much like standing at the edge of an ocean—some days calm, some days wild—the tides remind us that life is always moving, always evolving. And in that movement, we find our own strength to grow, adapt, and transform.

    So, whether you’re in a season of joy or struggle, know that this moment is temporary. It’s not your forever. Life is a journey of unfolding chapters, and each page brings something new. If things are going well, celebrate the now, cherish the joy, and live fully in the moment. And if you’re facing a storm, remember that every storm eventually passes, leaving behind the promise of brighter days.

    Hold on to hope, even when it feels distant. Whether through prayer, faith, or simply trusting the natural rhythm of life, know that you have the strength to endure. You have the resilience to heal, the capacity to love again, and the courage to keep moving forward.

    Change is inevitable, but so is your ability to grow and find joy again. Trust the process, embrace the journey, and keep your heart open to the beauty that’s always waiting around the corner. Life, with all its challenges, also offers constant moments of wonder and grace—you just have to be ready to see them.

    • #ChoitalykRuman

  • Accepting Change: See the Elegant in the Unpredictability of Life

    Life has a way of testing us, often in unexpected and challenging ways. It’s like a storm that catches you off guard—one moment, you’re enjoying a gentle breeze, and the next, you’re battling fierce winds that seem determined to knock you down. Just when it feels like everything is falling into place, when you finally catch a glimpse of peace and think, “This is it, I’ve found my balance,” life shakes things up again, reminding you that nothing stays the same for long.

    We’ve all experienced it—the frustration of taking a step forward only to be pushed two steps back. Life isn’t just about smooth paths and gentle winds; it’s also about rough roads, difficult moments, and harsh lessons that test us to our core. These times can leave us feeling lost, questioning our purpose, and wondering where we truly belong.

    But in the midst of these challenges, I’ve found comfort in a simple truth: change is inevitable. No matter how hard or painful the moment, it will pass. This reminder has become a quiet mantra for me, a grounding thought that keeps me going through life’s uncertainties. It’s a message that when things are tough, they won’t stay that way forever, and that we have the power to adapt, rebuild, and rise stronger.

    This truth applies equally to the good times. When life feels calm and joyful, I’ve learned not to take it for granted. Instead, I remind myself to savor these moments, to embrace them fully, knowing that they, too, are part of life’s ebb and flow. It’s not about living in fear of what’s to come, but about deeply appreciating the present—understanding that life’s beauty is often found in its fleeting, precious moments.

    The constancy of change brings a certain kind of beauty. It keeps us humble during the highs and gives us hope during the lows. Much like standing at the edge of an ocean—some days calm, some days wild—the tides remind us that life is always moving, always evolving. And in that movement, we find our own strength to grow, adapt, and transform.

    So, whether you’re in a season of joy or struggle, know that this moment is temporary. It’s not your forever. Life is a journey of unfolding chapters, and each page brings something new. If things are going well, celebrate the now, cherish the joy, and live fully in the moment. And if you’re facing a storm, remember that every storm eventually passes, leaving behind the promise of brighter days.

    Hold on to hope, even when it feels distant. Whether through prayer, faith, or simply trusting the natural rhythm of life, know that you have the strength to endure. You have the resilience to heal, the capacity to love again, and the courage to keep moving forward.

    Change is inevitable, but so is your ability to grow and find joy again. Trust the process, embrace the journey, and keep your heart open to the beauty that’s always waiting around the corner. Life, with all its challenges, also offers constant moments of wonder and grace—you just have to be ready to see them.

    • #ChoitalykRuman

  • Enjoying the Beauty of Nature and Spreading Love and Compassion

    Waking up to the golden rays of the sun streaming through the window on a cold yet stunningly beautiful morning is a privilege that fills the heart with delight. The scene outside, adorned with yellow Forsythia flowers in full bloom and wild berries adding contrasting red hues against the lush green grass, is nothing short of breathtaking. Energetic squirrels dart about, adding to the lively atmosphere, while gentle doves peck at the grass, enhancing the tranquility of the moment.

    In the midst of this picturesque setting, a profound sense of wonder and gratitude fills the soul. It’s a reminder of the beauty of nature and the blessings bestowed upon us by a higher power. However, amidst our own joy, it’s essential to remember those who are battling ailments and challenges silently.

    This moment serves as a poignant reminder to cherish the simple pleasures of life and to extend compassion to those enduring difficult times. As we bask in the warmth of the sun and the beauty of nature, let us be reminded of the interconnectedness of all living beings and the importance of empathy.

    In the shadows of life’s challenges, it’s crucial to illuminate darkness with the light of compassion and understanding. Each act of kindness, no matter how small, serves as a beacon of hope, guiding individuals towards brighter horizons.

    Love, with its transformative power, stands as the ultimate antidote to the demons that haunt us. It heals wounds, soothes troubled hearts, and brings solace to weary souls. Let us embrace love in all its forms and radiate it from within, touching the lives of others and spreading warmth and positivity.

    Together, through the collective strength of love and unity, we can overcome even the most formidable challenges. Let us extend a hand to those in need, offering not only love and support but also a reminder that they are not alone on their journey towards healing and wholeness.

    In conclusion, as we immerse ourselves in the beauty of nature, let us also embrace the power of love and compassion to uplift and inspire both ourselves and those around us. By doing so, we can create a world filled with kindness, understanding, and healing.