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  • Respect Everyone Equally

    A few years back, I was standing in line at a western Union office to send money to Bangladesh. It was my turn and I needed to sign to complete the paper work. The cashier lady threw the pen at me, but I ignored it. I thought that maybe it was part of Mexican culture. Then an American gentleman came to her and she was extremely nice to him. she ended the transaction by saying “Have a nice day sir!”

    Now it was an Indian-Bengali couple’s turn, they gave the lady their money. When it came time for the husband to sign, the cashier threw the pen at him. He was Orun Majumder, a director of a well reputed federal holding company. He signed the paper and threw the pen back at her exactly the way she threw it at him. Now the cashier looked at him with an annoyed expression.

    He said, “ah~ ah~ Ah don’t look at me like that.” He pointed at me and said “you see that young lady over there, you don’t have any idea who she is and how excellent of a person she is. You threw the pen to her like that. She took your action in a positive way, but I feel you reap what you sow. Be equal to everyone.” ~ CR

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  • EGO

    Love erases all ego. Choose love and free yourself From your negative egos.

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  • Home of Truth

    Where is the real home of truth?? The only true place you can find truth is in the heart. Heart knows the true answer.

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  • Life is a Gift from God

    Spend quality one on one time with your children and teach them; Love and compassions are much stronger than hatred. A Child’s mind is very soft. It can be molded like soft clay and believe me whatever they learn in childhood, especially what they learn through experience, their surroundings, are imprinted on them for life. So together envision a world where people lives in a harmony. Choose life. Life is a great gift from God. Our body, mind, and soul belongs to God and we are responsible for guarding them, a duty which has been entrusted to us by God. Love your life and love yourself. Each life is playing an important role for this planet. Love God, yourself & others. Suicide is a grievous sin that seriously hurts the heart of God and loved ones. Exercise Compassion, kindness, patience, grace and Love. Remember “World Peace begins with Inner Peace.” It can also start from our own homes.~CR

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  • Ramadan Fasting is a Purification

    Fasting in Ramadan is not only giving up food. You need to strictly give up anger, cheat on another, avoid all kind of evil action. On the other hand, be calm, serene, be kind, be compassionate, Practice empathy, release bad ego, jealousy, and straighten your own self from within.

    When we fast we directly experience the pain of hungry people and we become kind, compassionate and grateful. We become more aware of others feeling and feel connection between one human being to another. You will start feeling oneness with all human beings regardless of religion, borders or labels. We are ONE human Race.

    Fasting also detox our body, fasting allows our entire body to take rest from the breaking down food. During the Fasting in Ramadan for thirty days is a powerful practice. It will help us to restore and strengthen our focus, direction, balance and purpose to our lives.

    Happy Ramadan everybody. It is okay to craving for food or other appealing subjects. This is a wonderful training time for become a better you. Yes 30 day you will remove all evil action and replace it with good deed. This practice will improve your will power. I know you can do it. If I can do it so can you. God, bless you.

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  • Create Inner peace

    14721682_1167192756695339_4774434886572079390_nCreate love within in your heart!!! ! Love is an extremely powerful energy. Love has been found as the remarkable energy of life or the unified field of consciousness. Peace cannot be established without Love!!!! ? ? ?.. ~CR

     

  • Life is an experiment

    Our entire life is an experiment. More you do experiment you become better and better. Life is worth living and our belief will help create the fact.

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  • Gratitude

    Wake up every morning with a winning mindset! Allow happiness and be enthusiastic about life. Be grateful to God.  Remember people will criticize  you,  won’t love you no matter what you do. One the other hand some people won’t stop loving you no matter what you do.

    Free yourself from past resentments and disappointments.  Allow yourself to be happy, Go where the love is! Choose Love. Overcome fear with Love energy.  Appreciate the many blessings in your life, and be thankful for anything and everything. When you develop an attitude of gratitude you inspire others to be happy as well.

     Just believe : You are strong, You are beautiful, Be grateful, Be courageous, Be love and be YOU.

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  • Spend Quality Time with your Children

    Teach your children how to think. Spend quality time with them. Answer their questions positively. No matter how many questions they ask please answer their questions. If you do not know them take time and make that answer ready for them. Remember they will find that answer from friends or any other source if they do not find it from you. One of the greatest gifts we can provide our kids is a strong personal value. Teaching your children to grow values such as Discipline, sincerity, honesty, self-reliance, and dependability is as important a part of their education as teaching them to read or how to write. The values you teach your children are their best protection from the influences of friend’s pressure and the temptations of fit in to the society. With their own values clearly defined, your children can make their own decisions rather than imitate their friends or the latest fashions.

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  • Enjoy Life

    In life, once in a while we all face a relationship crisis. At a certain point you have to shut the door on a relationship. As a matter of fact that is also part of our creator’s plan. Please don’t beat yourself up. Stop blaming yourself. It’s not your fault. Your peace is very important.

    YOU can’t change anyone. Some people will never change. They don’t want to change. They just pretend to be asleep.

    Stay happy. Ask help from God. Stay true to yourself. Take a walk in the park. There is an ample amount of beautiful things and that’s going to lift you up, make you happy. Observe the activities of Birds, see a laughing child, notice the nature in bloom. Keep focusing on these miraculous things.
    Don’t worry about other people’s opinion. Trust me, God has your back. Relax. Have fun. There is nothing more important than feeling great.Enjoy the beauty. Enjoy life. 

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