Author: Choitalyk Ruman

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  • The Quiet Beauty of Ordinary weekend.

    By Choitalyk Ruman

    This morning, I woke to a soft golden light spilling through my window. When I pulled the curtain aside, the world outside seemed wrapped in quiet beauty the maple leaves had turned deep red, some shimmering like pure gold. The berries along the fence glowed crimson, a small feast waiting for the birds before winter arrives.

    It felt like the earth was preparing gathering, giving, and gracefully letting go. I stood there for a while, just breathing it in. No rush, no noise, just the stillness of a Saturday morning reminding me how time moves not with thunder, but with whispers.

    You don’t notice the days passing until you pause like this until you realize the moments that once felt ordinary were actually the heartbeats of your life. Breakfasts shared with family. Laughter echoing down the hall. The quiet walks after dinner when the world feels softer.

    One day, those little things become the ones we ache to return to not the milestones, not the grand successes, but the simple, everyday pieces of love stitched into our routine.

    The sunlight touching your kitchen table. The sound of someone you love laughing in another room. The hugs that linger for just a second longer.

    These are the treasures we carry , not in photographs or timelines, but in our hearts. They stay there, glowing quietly, reminding us that life’s beauty is never in the rush, it’s in the noticing.

    So, take a breath. Look around. Feel the warmth of the sun, the song of the wind, the kindness in someone’s smile.

    Because even this moment ,this ordinary, golden Saturday , is already becoming a memory.

  • Every Moment Becomes a Memory

    By Choitalyk Ruman

    This morning I woke to quiet light,
    curtains parting on a golden sight
    maple leaves blushing red and gold,
    autumn’s beauty, gentle and bold.

    Berries gleamed along the lane,
    a feast for birds before the rain.
    The world was calm, yet softly alive,
    whispering, “even stillness can thrive.”

    Time moves quietly, never loud,
    like sunlight slipping through a cloud.
    You don’t see it leave, not right away
    until the moments start to fade.

    Breakfast laughter, a porch-side smile,
    footsteps echoing for a while.
    The simple things, we let them pass,
    not knowing they’re the ones that last.

    The warmth of tea, the evening breeze,
    a hug that lingers, small mercies of ease.
    Each breath, each glance, each tender sound
    these are the jewels life scatters around.

    So slow your heart, and softly see,
    how beautiful ordinary can be.
    Because even now, this golden day
    is quietly, gently slipping away.

    And one day, when winter fills the sky,
    you’ll close your eyes and realize why
    the smallest moments, kind and true,
    became the memories that carry you.

    #ChoitalykRuman #ummeymiah

  • The Encounter That Healed Tasnim’s Heart

    By Choitalyk Ruman

    The Encounter That Healed Rimi’s Heart

    Tajrin was the kind of person who carried light in her smile. She greeted everyone with warmth, helped without being asked, and believed that kindness could soften even the hardest hearts. But life, as it often does, tested that belief.

    At her workplace, there was a coworker named Emily ; sharp, confident, and often cold. She had a way of making Tajrin feel small. Whenever Tajrin spoke, Emily would interrupt or roll her eyes. WhenTajrin shared an idea, Emily would take credit for it later. There was no open cruelty, just those subtle cuts , the kind that bruise the spirit quietly.

    Tajrin tried to stay kind, hoping that her sincerity would melt the wall between them. But day after day, the same disdain continued. Eventually, Tajrin began to doubt herself. “Maybe I am not good enough,” she whispered inside her heart.

    One afternoon, after another long day of silent humiliation, Tajrin walked out of the office with tears in her eyes. The city lights blurred as she walked aimlessly through the park. The autumn wind carried the scent of fallen leaves and a quiet ache of loneliness.

    That’s when she noticed an elderly woman walking her golden retriever. The dog ran up to Tajrin, wagging its tail as if sensing her sorrow. The woman smiled gently. “He never greets strangers like this,” she said, “but he must have felt your heart.”

    Tajrin tried to smile, brushing away her tears. “Rough day,” she whispered.

    The woman looked at her kindly. “Ah, I’ve had many of those. Want to tell me what happened?”

    And iTajrin did. She poured out everything,, Emily’s rude behavior, the constant disrespect, and how small it made her feel. When she finished, she felt both empty and relieved.

    The woman nodded thoughtfully and said something that would stay with Tajrin forever.

    “My dear,” she began softly, “how people treat you is a reflection of who they are, not of what you deserve. Some hearts are still learning how to love, and they lash out at those who already know how. Never let someone’s blindness make you doubt your own light.”

    She bent down to pat her dog and added, “You see, not everyone will recognize your kindness but that doesn’t make it any less precious. Don’t let bitterness take root in your beautiful heart. Keep being you, even when others can’t see your worth. Life has its own way of returning kindness, often from the most unexpected places.”

    Tajrin stood silently, feeling as though the universe had sent her this gentle messenger. The woman smiled once more, wished her peace, and continued down the path with her dog trotting beside her.

    Tajrin looked up at the sky. The stars were just beginning to appear. distant but unwavering. She took a deep breath and felt something shift inside. The sadness didn’t vanish, but it softened. She realized she didn’t need Emily’s approval to feel whole. Her worth had always been there , untouched, shining quietly beneath the pain.

    From that night onward, Tajrin promised herself to keep her heart kind, but strong. Because even in a world of harsh voices, she had rediscovered her own gentle strength.

    #ChoitalykRuman #ummeymiah

    10/30/2025

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  • When November Whispers

    By Choitalyk Ruman

    Let November become your quiet teacher
    showing how to release with grace,
    how to let go of what has already lived its season,
    and open your palms to the gentle now.

    Let your pace soften.
    Let the hush between moments be enough.
    Discover how silence itself
    can become the soil where peace quietly blooms.

    May the days arrive wrapped in tender mercies,
    the flicker of a candle flame,
    the comfort of something warm in the oven,
    the soft percussion of rain upon the roof.

    Give thanks not only for what shines,
    but for what stays steady
    when the brilliance fades into dusk.

    As the earth folds inward,
    may you come to know stillness
    not as a finish line,
    but as the first breath
    of becoming whole again.

    Let November cradle you in its gentle arms,
    its calm drifting in
    like mist across morning meadows.

    Seek warmth not from sunlight,
    but from the corners and pauses
    that remind you of home.

    Let your hands find joy in simple offerings,
    a steaming cup between your fingers,
    a beloved page turning softly,
    the hush of golden leaves descending.

    Let breath find its rhythm.
    Let quiet strength reveal itself.
    Let beauty shimmer through every change.

    And when the daylight grows brief,
    may the glow turn inward,
    steady and luminous,
    like gratitude that never dims.

    #ChoitalykRuman #ummeymiah

  • A Father’s Profession

    -By Choitalyk Ruman

    One late afternoon, a few colleagues were chatting in the office cafeteria.
    The topic somehow drifted to a simple but profound question
    “Other than our jobs, who are we, really?”

    Someone laughed and said, “I’m an engineer.”
    Another added, “I’m a manager.”
    Someone else proudly said, “A developer.”

    But in one quiet corner sat a man in a plain shirt, smiling gently, saying nothing.

    A young colleague looked at him and asked,
    “Sir, you didn’t say anything. What’s your profession?”

    The man set down his teacup, paused a moment, and softly replied,
    “I’m a builder, I build the future of people.”

    The young man frowned playfully.
    “Oh, do you work in construction?”

    The man smiled and shook his head.
    “No, I work for an organization called Home.
    My ongoing project is my child.
    Every day I lay bricks in his dreams, paint colors in his character,
    and teach him how to stand tall, even when life breaks him down.”

    The sounds of the cafeteria slowly faded.
    Everyone went silent.

    The young man’s eyes softened —
    he suddenly saw his own father,
    the man who always said, ‘I’m fine,’
    even when exhaustion and sacrifice lined his face.
    The man who quietly folded away his own dreams
    so his children’s could take flight.

    The father finished his tea and stood up.
    “My title at work may be small,” he said with a gentle smile,
    “but my life’s title. ” Father “
    that’s the greatest honor I’ve ever held.”

    No one spoke.
    Only silence filled the room
    a silence that carried a truth too deep for words:

    Being a father is the world’s quietest yet most noble profession.

    #ChoitalykRuman, #ummeymiah

    11/01/2025

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