Author: Choitalyk Ruman

Do you feel proud or powerful by letting other people down? It is a sign of illness. You are in a phase of mental poverty. We all should practice kindness. Let me tell you a couple of short stories.

Once I had a coworker. She did not like me since day one. I always treated her nicely.
Few times I saw her walking in the cold I stopped my Car and offered her a ride and snacks. Then again, she was waiting at the main gate and no one opened the door for her. Everyone was walking around and ignored her. I did not ignore her, instead, I opened the door for her. Slowly she changed her attitude. Last week she had made Hot Tamales and brought for me. Tamale is traditional Mexican dish.
Why did I respect her? To show the guidelines of being polite. This way she will learn.
Then another young coworker was the same way. One day our Supervisor assigned both of us a project. She was rushing me and speaking rudely. So, I spoke up. Then she changed her way. Later I asked her why are you always mean? Then she told me her story. When she was a little girl her Mom passed away. Then her Father got married. Her father used to be so rude to her at some point she lived in a foster home. She never received proper affection from her family.
There are people out there who truly don’t realize that they’re being rude. Maybe they have not learned certain social skills. In case you have faced someone like this, you may want to politely inform that they have been rude. Either you’ll get an apology right away. If not, it may just take patience or just avoid them. I have forgiven them anyway.

Happiness is a state of our mind that can’t be measured but can be felt, can be shared but no one can steal it and happiness can’t be taken..it’s a choice. Love your inner child . Are you happy??

I agree financial solvency is very important but I feel for living, one must have soothing full moonlight, the sunshine, freedom, sweet music, a beautiful garden and a beautiful loving and caring family !! Peace of mind all that matter.

sometimes we like to enjoy the pain. Like yesterday I had some spicy food. The Food was so spicy itself, then I added Siracha Korean hot sauce. It became fiery hot. I enjoyed the pain voluntarily and I was punishing myself with that burning hot. That pain was worthy though ~~~hahaha

Pain and happiness are part of our life but they both are nonpermanent. Nothing is permanent, not even life itself.
Life is full of obstacles but In this turn of my life, I realized, I have to choose my own path. Happiness is all that matters !!
Where is the destination ?
There is a beautiful path from the eye to the heart That does not maintain any restriction. Happiness is hidden under worries. I just relese worries and i find my happpiness there.. That place is my real home. Very sweet home. <3

Ahhh what a colorful weather. Mother earth decorated herself with vibrant color. Fall is a wonderful time of the year. Weather is cool but not cold. Fall Leaves are falling all around. Rohan and his classmates have raked fall leaves for the community. Then Cruz around all over. Took some pictures. Now a days we are becoming screen-addicted, So we are stressed out and distracted than ever. We should get out from home and enjoy the nature. Nature is our remedy of many diseases.Enjoy the weather to benefit your health and calm you mind. You see all those tress…they work for Your health. They are my best friends. They have never betrayed me ever. Only given me unconditional love.

I just wanted to let you know that I have really appreciated your presence. I also would like to say, Thank you so very much for liking, sharing a commenting on my uploaded posts. I am so happy to see there are positive people out there who have engaged themselves in positive actions and taking the time to send Love, compassion, and kindness to the world. It is a difficult time for many people affected by the recent unrest in the world.
We do not have control over this but we can do what can manage our anger and heal. I will try my best to inspire and motivate them who thinks differently about conflict and peace.
My posts will be working as a reminder but you need to read and Listen to your intuition and follow your gut instinct.
Every problem will not be solved by the logic. Please use your gut feelings to protect and keep yourself safe. Be strong. Be kind. Love each other. We all are One. We all are created by the same Creator. We are, the human family. Please do not separate your own brother/sister based on religious values. In this matter don’t go with the flow. Ask yourself if you are being the same situation, how would you feel? Think. Yes take a moment and think. Our mother earth is in pain. Because her own children’s are hurting each other. Please stop this harmful violence. Spread Love and heal our mother planet.

Today use the nice beautiful bed sheet, wear the fancy outfit. Get a bunch of fresh flowers, Burn the candles, listen to mind soothing favorite music. Take selfie if you feel like to :p Relax ~~~ Close your eyes and thank God for everything s/he has given it to you. No need to save for special occasion. Do it” NOW” . Today is a special day. do it for yourself !! Pamper yourself. Do something for yourself, which is entirely dedicated to you. You deserve it. Don’t You worry about what other people says?  Your soul is  unique and special